I have no words. It was just beautiful and I almost cried so many times because of how emtional it was. Can´t even imagine how hard and how long it took to make this. I reeally enjoyed it and I can´t wayt for the step 4.
You have to get the Derek and Baxter DLCs, which aren't available right now. The Step 1 DLC only unlocks a CG in the Step 1 section and the Step 2 DLC only unlocks one CG in the Step 2 section. Those DLCs don't impact the Step 3 part of the gallery or the Derek/Baxter part of the gallery. I'm sorry for the confusion.
Omg loved it so much, Usually, my types of games have more heated romance but honestly this beats all by FAR. I really love the meaningful romance and how intricate the decisions and choices are. I loved it as soon as I got in and was like OMG I HAVE TWO MOMS. YASSSS. I loved how your gender could differ from your birth gender, you could design your room, the love interest's level of interest as well as yours, who you are romantically and physically attracted to ect. It was super fun to play and I am looking forward to future developments and projects. TYSM for taking the time to make it.
We have the same issue, but I'm REALLY sure it's the game's files that has a problem. It's in the folder for ren'py in 'lib' there's nothing there! I wanna play it too! :(( Have you tried disabling your anti-virus?
Are you still having problems? It's possible your computer's virus scanner isn't allowing the game to work right. If you have a firewall/virus scanner can you try turning that off while downloading/installing/launching or try to tell the program the file is safe?
This game seems amazing and I want to play it, But it keeps saying "could not open file, is it missing?". I'm using Pea zip. I extracted it and checked all the other files. Can someone help please?I want to play this game so bad-
Someone else had the same problem just a little bit ago. My answer to them was this--- I believe you may be having a problem several other people had, a firewall or virus scanner is removing the file because it isn't from a well-known source and something in it seems strange. We don't know why some people's computers think it's unsafe, the game is really harmless, but to fix that you'll either have to turn off any scanners you have or find a way to tell those programs you trust the file.
Or there might have been a problem with download in the first place, sometimes things just go kind of weird and the file isn't able to then work right. So you could also try downloading it all again.
Since two people are both suddenly getting the "could not open missing file" thing it does make me wonder if there's a problem right now with downloading content from Itch. Maybe try downloading again later on.
Hey! Unfortunately, it looks like the game didn't really install right. The actual start of the game just isn't there for you. It's possible the way you unzipped it didn't work properly or that your antivirus is removing content from the game because it still doesn't trust it. Maybe try another program for unzipping the file or double checking what's going on with your virus scanner? I'm sorry for the trouble.
Hey! Sorry for replying so late, I tried unzipping using a different unzipping software and it worked! The game was amazing and if I had money I would definitely buy the DLCs.
I'm having some trouble opening the game... I'm on PC and I have fully extracted it to my computer, yet whenever I click on it to open, it doesn't. My windows just make a sound and then the WinRAR achiever opens to say that there were new files modified and created-- I can't open the game! How do you fix this?
EDIT: My computer says "Could not open, is it missing?" I extracted it again, clicked, then it's gone. I swear, I think my PC is broken ;-; I wanna play it SO bad!!
I believe you may be having a problem several other people had, a firewall or virus scanner is removing the file because it isn't from a well-known source and something in it seems strange. We don't know why some people's computers think it's unsafe, the game is really harmless, but to fix that you'll either have to turn off any scanners you have or find a way to tell those programs you trust the file.
Or there might have been a problem with download in the first place, sometimes things just go kind of weird and the file isn't able to then work right. So you could also try downloading it all again.
Hmm, It still didn't work, I tried it on Steam and it shows that it was paused 'cause it had missing downloaded files? Correct me if I'm wrong! It still won't download anywhere :((
Then it is likely you have a program somewhere on your computer that's blocking the file regardless of where you're downloading it. Can you check if there's a firewall or virus scanner somewhere? I'm sorry for the trouble.
Oh! I already played it! It's amazing!! I recommended to my friends, good job on the game! (I just used an emulator on PC and all went well ^^) Thank you so much for this game! I can't believe this quality of otome is free, I'm not complaining though, haha! By any chance, are you Filipino? ^ . ^
I'm pretty sure that's a stand-alone sequel with new characters? It's just the same as this one in the sense that you follow the same formula of growing up with one/two people and experience a life together in different steps. I could be wrong, but that's what I've gathered
Since they're asking about art styles for a Cove older than he will be in Step 4, I figured it'd be a sequel, but it's true they haven't revealed much. I haven't gone through all their posts, but I haven't seen anything that specifies what OL2:N&F will be like.
Sorry for the confusion on that. Cove was only used in the art samples so the new love interests' designs weren't spoiled. Our Life: Now & Forever will have similar features to Beginnings & Always and the tone is the same, but the setting and characters are all brand new. I'm afraid the Step 4 wedding DLC with Cove is as far as his story will go. There won't be a time period past that. I'm happy you'd like to continue seeing more of him, though!
This has been amazingly therapeutic. I didn't get to experience a wholesome childhood crush; my teenage years were complicated by fundamentalist religion. It's so healing to get to work through my own feelings about how it would be if I had 2 moms, if I could talk about my gender with friends who accept me. I feel... okay. I getto feel okay. I'm much older now, so I have gotten to surround myself with a loving family, but it's still good to understand it wasn't my fault that everything was broken in my childhood, the world just wasn't made for me. If I had always had this support, not just in my later years, but throughout my life, I would have been okay. Thank you for this.
I am very old. I grew up in the 70s in rural England. To be gay was to face daily abuse and to be an outcast (I am not exagerating). I was never brave enough for that. I didn't even know what my sexuality was growing up. I just knew that I was not like the people around me. Imagine reaching the moment where Cove tells you his sexuality, and having learned everything about him so far, it all falls into place. I am the same sexuality as Cove. I can tell you, I cried uncontrollably for a couple of minutes. But not through sadness, just raw emotion. After 57 years I discover that there must be other people like me. You will understand how much this "game" means to me. So when you say that this game is theraputic, I know exactly where you are coming from.
Hello Zevvi, I saw your post and felt the need to reply. I was in my 30's once I learned what I am. I am VERY HAPPY for you! I understand some of the feelings your having. I cried tears of joy once I realized I wasn't alone and that there were others like me.
I myself am asexual. Demisexual falls w/in the spectrum of asexuality so you may be interested in learning more about the orientation and connecting with others through this website...
This game means a lot to me too. The way Cove interacts with the player and has to do a few "test runs" before he can be comfortable doing anything physical is very like my own experience. I'm so glad the creators made this game. It's just the kind of media and representation I wish existed when I was Cove's age and confused.
Hi gingerDee. Really nice to hear from you. Thanks for your message. Thanks so much for the link, and the virtual hug, I appreciate it, and send one back :)
I'm sure that a lot of people feel the way we do about this game. ( as I've said elsewhere, game just does not seem an adequate word to describe it).
I, just a moment ago subscribed on the Patrion site to help fund the GB Patch developers. Our Life means so much to me, I felt it was the very least that I should do.
You said "It's just the kind of media and representation I wish existed when I was Cove's age and confused." I could not put it better myself. Had I understood myself better, then I might have possibly been more understanding of others too. I think that my biggest regrets are not understanding other people in the past. When I was in sixth form, I remember a guy telling me out of the blue that he is gay (this was the 70s, he could have been abused and become an outcast for saying that, but he told me), and I didn't have a clue what to say. I am filled with shame looking back on it, he put his trust in me, yet I had nothing for him, because I didn't understand. I spoke to no one else about it, but I never talked to him about it ever again either. How awful is that.
The one big thing that this game has changed in me is that I feel open about it all. If anyone asks me anything about my feelings then I will now tell them the honest truth without embarassment. Before, I was completely evasive, because I felt that I didn't really know what the truth was. It is a liberating feeling.
So thanks again for your message, I really do appreciate it :)
Well when I discover this game almost a year ago, I just knew that it was pure gold.
I was right. This game is so wonderful that I have dificulties to find the rights words to express how I feel right now.
I was so deep in the story that I played the entire game whitout a break (Well excepts those few times were I had to grab tissues to clean my crying face, haha)
I just feel sad that I don't know anything about coding and stuff, otherwise I would have happily tried to translate the game in my mother tongue just to give it more visibility in my own country. Because trust me, you deserve it !
Like I said in a previous comment, this kind of project looks really complex to make, so I hope all the people who contribute to create this beautiful game are happy and proud with what they achieved !
So thanks you so much for all your efforts and time to give people such a good game. And please, don't forget to think about yourself too and to not pushing yourselves to hard !
Thanks again and sorry for such a long comment, haha
It is a truly beautiful experience. You are right, it would be so nice if it could be made accessible in other languages. I am English/French, but I'm afraid that my French does not have the nuance to do justice to this wonderful work of art. To call it a game really does not seem adequate.
Hehe I'm little flustered, I didnt expect someone to reply me. But yeah I understand the feeling I guess. More than a game its a way to heal, understand yourself a little better and regain faith in humanity. A reminder that this world isnt only made by narrow minded people who want to crush all your dreams and hope.
I've spent over 7 and a half hours playing this game and I've finished most of the currently playable content. I've got to say we're all blessed to have been able to get a novel of this quality for free. I'm looking forward to any future updates and will support the creators whenever I can
This is one of the best games i've ever played! I've almost cried and have felt emotional towards Cove. Liz is one of my favorite characters! This game is great 10/10 would play again- no, WILL play again!
who else cried during the game. Also i have a really unhealthy obsession with Cove that I've been drawing my character and Cove together. I LOOOOOVE THIS GAME! also I would love to share my art if anyone is interested.
Ofcourse I cried, who wouldn't? How could you not be obsessed with Cove. You meet him crying uncontrollably all alone at the beach, anyone with a heart would be desperate to make him feel OK. Then as you get to know him, he is absolutely adorable. I think that your reaction is 100% understandable :)
So, I didn't even go 5 minutes after finding out about the release before buying the DLC. Since the release, I've lost track of how many times I've played. The first time after the release I cried several times while playing because some scenarios hit really close to home (it was a good, much needed cry).
Seriously one of the best, if not THE BEST, game I've ever played. I'm waiting so impatiently for the Step 3 DLC, but I'm trying to reign it in. I know perfection takes time!
Sad to see my Jeremy be so angry, but kinda cool to see how he was before entering high school. I couldn't imagine him being angry when I played XOXO Droplets, now I'll always know how much of a jackass he truly was...
Kinda wish the Android DLC played nicely all together rather than having to install it whenever I get to that Step, but I keep playing on my computer anyway.
guys- i just finished the story and im crying :( im in love with cove and the moms and the sister and everyone!!! i'm struggling with some things right now and this story helped me to forget the bad feelings i was feeling. im looking foward to the next chapter! thank u so much for rep the lgbtq+ community, i wasnt expecting this. i am demisexual and i felt really emotional seeing this kind of representation <3
i love it soooo much, it is so cute and beautiful, i was screaming through the game because how cute Cove is. This art styles are ABSOLUTELY AMAZING, EVERY SINGLE THING ABOUT THIS GAME IS AMAZING. and i love that fact that we have a lot of choices to make so often, it make the game so much better and not boring
I don't know if it's a glitch, but before starting the second part it has the Comfort and Interest meter. It won't let me increase the Interest meter at all
Crush is the highest level of interest you can get until you get to Step 3. Once they're adults, it can be increased to love.
Interest levels can only be raised, never lowered. Comfort can be both lowered and raised. Before starting each step, you can adjust the meters to your preference.
No problem! It's a pretty unique mechanic for these sorts of games, and it's really cool seeing how dialogue and such changes depending on what interest/comfort combos you choose!
I really enjoyed the life aspects of the game. The characters and world feel absolutely real, and I was deeply invested in them.
I was surprised at the journey it took me on, too. I found myself thinking pretty intensely about my childhood, my gender, and my relationships with my parents and my peers for the first time in a while. Caught me off guard, made me think, and gave me a little happiness I think I may have missed out on.
Cove's a cutie, and his personality and worldview developing is amazing to watch and grow with. Thanks so much for this game, guys! Seriously.
Yes, it is a beautiful game. Cove is totally adorable. And yes, it is a game that had me continually reflecting on my life, and life decisions. If only I could have grown up with someone like Cove by my side, life would have been perfect.
i eagerly waited for this game to release and there are lots of things i liked about it—the art, how decisions and memories early on in the game made an appearance later on, the personalities of the characters. i definitely felt emotionally invested in different relationships and it was hard for me to say goodbye when that time came.
as someone that is big on romance though, i wish there was...more. i liked all of the other characters but i sometimes found myself skipping forward until i could have more alone time to bond with cove and make progress with the romantic side of our relationship. i am probably alone in this but it would have been nice in steps 2 and 3, if mc had a direct crush and/or was in love with cove, the family bit would feature a little less and the romance part was more prominent. romance didn't feel like a highlight of this game for me.
i also felt weird about choosing romance options i thought were typical in teen romance that seemed to initially make cove uncomfortable. i get that he struggles with certain forms of intimacy which is why i wish especially in step 3, we saw less of the family and friends and more moments of just mc and cove. by the end of the game i found myself craving more romance moments with cove and i bought both dlcs and played through them a couple times.
It feels so nostalgic, especially near the end when you are saying goodbye to cove's parents, and the little chat MC and him have before the credits roll. The credits song is so pretty, loved every second of this experience.
It makes me feel loved and fuzzy inside, even if they are just fictional characters. It shows how real they feel and the real development they have.
I played this game before It was fully released and I just realized today that the full game is out, I just want to say thank you for making a great game and I look forward to your next projects!!!
This is a beautiful game. And yes, the characters are very well imagined. Cove is completely adorable, he felt totally real to me. So you can imagine how it felt to finish the game. I can recommend other games with amazing characters (but without the sexual attraction). DONTNOD's "Life is strange 2" has two brothers on the run from the police after their father is mistakenly shot by the police, that game is an emotional roller coaster. You will feel you want to move heaven and earth to help Sean and Daniel. DONTNOD's "Tell me why" is nice too. But "Our Life" has to be the most memorable and beautiful game I've ever played, and Cove, the most real and adorable character.
I am so, absolutely enamored by this game. Everything about it has entranced me and I can't help but want more. It normally takes me a while to replay games after I experience them -- especially visual novels.
I played this three times in a row and had that same magnificent experience the entire time. It's so cute, so warm, and I love being able to be totally comfortable with my choices. I can play a character, or I can be myself, but I never have that issue of being uncomfortable. This game really speaks to its title. It's not just about the player, it's about Cove and everyone the player grows to know and love and what they do. It's gorgeous. Please play it too.
I can't wait for the future, and I can't wait to be able to afford all the DLC. I love everything this game has had to offer. Thank you so much for creating it. I hope Cove knows that I adore him lolol <3
I made account just to say this is the best visual novel I ever played. I feel in love with Cove immediately and felt invested in the relationship. I don't even have the words to say how much this impacted me. I bought the DLCs for my second playthrough. Love this so much
I finished the game and I have to be honest, it was a really pleasant and welcomed treat. I'd say it's quite realistic, especially with the type of options you get to choose to say. I like how you can be there for Cove to help him realize the world around him and kind of help him get out of his comfort zone to make him more social. It felt really... casual? Like it felt like you were actually there interacting with the characters and made you create this bond with them that you will never forget. Made me tear up a bit after it all ended, but overall the writing and pacing was well made. The visuals are stunning and the audio was greatly done. In short 10/10, am definitely excited for the epilogue. It definitely gave me a euphoric memory I'll hopefully never forget. I also made this account just to say how beautiful this game was.
Just finished my first complete playthrough. I really loved it, both dlcs were really great too and I can't wait for more content when it comes out. This was a very love-filled game, with strong bonds of family and friendship. Thank you for making this!
this game is just PERFECT i its been a long time since i fell in love with a game like this the storylines are amazing,the characters are the best all of them i dont hate or dislike any of them except jeremy f*ck that little brat i want more kyra though she is soooooooooo hott i was actually hoping by the end of step 2 she would stay but unfortunetly she still left that made me sad and that family moment in step 2 was REALLY heavy but it was really good it was sad and heartbreaking i just cant any anything bad about your game this is just TOO perfect from beginnning to end i cant wait for future DLC'S i will buy every single one of them i had no idea what to expect when i start playing this and now i cant and i dont want to stop so its your fault am now addicting to this game and to its characters.
*raises hand* Yes - Hi, I'd like to formally request more Lee. And Liz. And Moms. You know what -- just go ahead and make an entire game featuring MC's family. Here's my money. K-thanks.
Srsly though - my GOODNESS. I know Cove's on the cover (and he is lovely - as is Derek and Baxter), but I Legit cried most from interactions with fam. It's so HEALTHY. That doesn't mean they don't have their issues - but to actually seegenuine Unconditional Love - that doesn't exist in many RL families- ...You've cleared my skin and watered my crops. Lee (Best Cousin), Liz (Best Big Sissy) and Moms (just - Best) have my Entire Heart and you just about near killed me with them in Step 3. Please - Moar
I cant agree more, tbh, im so in love with this game because its not really about getting the guy, its about growing together,not only with Cove, but with the entire family your MC has. I dont even have the will to press any negative interactions with them because i just love them so much i cant help it ;_; I cried so much at the Home moment in step 2.
Well said! I knew Lee all of 5 seconds before she lived in my mind and heart rent-free. I've never seen such Pure, Loving, Supportive precious. And I always Loved Lizze. Pretty sure I woke the neighbors when I found out we majored in the same thing in college. There is also No Moms moment I don't 100% enjoy. A choice between family and Cove with my MC typically goes like: 'Cove. I love you, you're so wonderful - *SLAMS THE FAMILY BUTTON*' Poor guy. lol
XD SAME! Poor Cove, but i dont regret anything, i genuenly belive that Cove also needs to grow on his own family as well as my MC, and i adore the fact that they showed it. Thats why i think this game has a very mature way of portraiting love in youth. You are both still growing and at the same time finding who you are. And i really like how they aproached it. ;_;
Hello dear GBPatch, unfortunately I had no time to write a review before, because I had to play a wonderful game. Again and again. Before I wrote this is the best game in this genre I tried out. This IS THE BEST GAME I ever played in this Genre. It is wonderful sweet and romantic, and I feel like a little teenie again (which I am not).
I am looking forward to every DLC you will present us. But I haven't tried every possible way, so I am satisfied for now.
Thank you for making this great game. I hope there is much more to come from you. And congratulation to create a game, which is able to seriously tickle your heart.
Wow, I just finished the game and I feel very...emotional? It really exceeded my expectations and I'm looking forward to everything the future holds for this! Honestly, I loved every second that I played. I feel that everything combines: the music, the characters and the writing style~.
I didn't know whether to leave this written here or on Steam, but I had to say how much I loved it. Although I cried, I also laughed. It made me feel very comfortable and as if I really mattered. It made me realize many things and I connected so much with Cove and the rest of the characters that I was very sad to know that the game would end at some point, haha. He accompanied me during all the hours of play and I felt very happy playing. It really was a great experience. I can't wait to see what you'll do in the future^^.
I'm going to wait for the epilogue and the rest of the DLCs, and from what I've read there will also be a sequel, so I'll be looking forward to it!
Thank you very much for creating this game, it has definitely become my favorite visual novel since the day I tried the first demo ♡ .
Holy, I can't believe how good this game really is! I've recently just finished the game and just wow.
Coming into it, I didn't think I really wanted to have a romantic relationship with Cove. But as my character got to know him more and more, I started to like him and eventually chose to pursue a relationship with him.
My MC started off as a sorta shy and awkward person and then eventually became extroverted and very comfortable around Cove, whose personality and appearance was impacted by the choices I made, was one that I really adored.
Cove and the MC's love for each other was so sweet. I loved every single second of it and I still can't believe this game doesn't cost like 20 dollars at least!
Thank you so much GBPatch for making this! I'll look forward in the sequel for Our Life :)
I nearly chocked from laughter from the booty option xD! My heart just exploded from this; gosh darn it, I need to steady my heart xD The creators pulled a sneaky one on me, heck yeah! You guys rock ;D!
Hey hey! :) I've lost count of how many times I replayed this game and I honestly don't know which options lead to this result but I can take a gamble; what I did: at childgood I selected max comfort and a crush level, for step 2&3 I maxed both meters. I often selected actionss that showed upfront fondness (there's no right or wrong, it probably just shows how direct or indirect you are at being close); I had the first kiss scene in step 2 where the MC and Cove can't oficially date yet since they're not adults yet. In step 3 I chose options where both characters were dating for years, maybe this had an impact? Uff it's hard to tell, but I think if you replay the game it's bound to happen :D this game is just too amazing to play it just once! xD I hope this helps!
I actually made an account just to write this review so uh here goes-
I've been waiting for this game to come out since like May or June when I found it and when I got the notification that this game came out I couldn't wait to play it. And when I did play it I was blown away. This game passed all my expectations, not that I even had many but I just eajfewcejvfbg. I can't rlly describe the feelings this game made me feel but I stayed up till 2 am playing this and when it ended I had a heck of a crying session. It makes me sad to even think about it :') plus i'm a closeted bisexual and having parents in the game who actually supported me and loved me regardless of who I was just made me so so so sad. And Cove oh my gosh I just-
Sentimental stuff aside, the game was just *chefs kiss* There were literally no mistakes, everything was so smooth and the dialogue was so believable it made me cry :") The personalization rlly made the entire game hit especially hard.
The writing, the art, the music, the vibes just everything about this game was perfect. Thank you so so so much for making this game, it will always have a special place in my heart :)
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ILOVEit!! I can't wait for the third DLC. This game is AWESOME! i want their wedding xD
I have no words. It was just beautiful and I almost cried so many times because of how emtional it was. Can´t even imagine how hard and how long it took to make this. I reeally enjoyed it and I can´t wayt for the step 4.
how does one get the derek and baxter gallery? i bought the dlc on steam
You have to get the Derek and Baxter DLCs, which aren't available right now. The Step 1 DLC only unlocks a CG in the Step 1 section and the Step 2 DLC only unlocks one CG in the Step 2 section. Those DLCs don't impact the Step 3 part of the gallery or the Derek/Baxter part of the gallery. I'm sorry for the confusion.
thank you for clearing that
This is probably my favorite game i've found on here so far. I love how wholesome it is.
Omg loved it so much, Usually, my types of games have more heated romance but honestly this beats all by FAR. I really love the meaningful romance and how intricate the decisions and choices are. I loved it as soon as I got in and was like OMG I HAVE TWO MOMS. YASSSS. I loved how your gender could differ from your birth gender, you could design your room, the love interest's level of interest as well as yours, who you are romantically and physically attracted to ect. It was super fun to play and I am looking forward to future developments and projects. TYSM for taking the time to make it.
Did you have any problem with yours? I seem to have a problem opening mine oops, you're so luckyyy!
No I didnt? What platform are you downloading it on
i'm on PC, it seemed like there were 3 of us having a problem
Mac or Windows?
using windows
i reaaally wanna play this game so i installed it on my laptop but for some reason i cant open the game
We have the same issue, but I'm REALLY sure it's the game's files that has a problem. It's in the folder for ren'py in 'lib' there's nothing there! I wanna play it too! :(( Have you tried disabling your anti-virus?
not yet
You should try, It doesn't work on mine though. Maybe it works for you!
Are you still having problems? It's possible your computer's virus scanner isn't allowing the game to work right. If you have a firewall/virus scanner can you try turning that off while downloading/installing/launching or try to tell the program the file is safe?
This game seems amazing and I want to play it, But it keeps saying "could not open file, is it missing?". I'm using Pea zip. I extracted it and checked all the other files. Can someone help please?I want to play this game so bad-
Someone else had the same problem just a little bit ago. My answer to them was this---
I believe you may be having a problem several other people had, a firewall or virus scanner is removing the file because it isn't from a well-known source and something in it seems strange. We don't know why some people's computers think it's unsafe, the game is really harmless, but to fix that you'll either have to turn off any scanners you have or find a way to tell those programs you trust the file.
Or there might have been a problem with download in the first place, sometimes things just go kind of weird and the file isn't able to then work right. So you could also try downloading it all again.
Since two people are both suddenly getting the "could not open missing file" thing it does make me wonder if there's a problem right now with downloading content from Itch. Maybe try downloading again later on.
I hope you're able to have it work out!
Is there some file I need to open or use?-
I'm honestly confused-
Hey! Unfortunately, it looks like the game didn't really install right. The actual start of the game just isn't there for you. It's possible the way you unzipped it didn't work properly or that your antivirus is removing content from the game because it still doesn't trust it. Maybe try another program for unzipping the file or double checking what's going on with your virus scanner? I'm sorry for the trouble.
Hey! Sorry for replying so late, I tried unzipping using a different unzipping software and it worked! The game was amazing and if I had money I would definitely buy the DLCs.
I'm so glad it worked out :D. Thank you!
I'm having some trouble opening the game... I'm on PC and I have fully extracted it to my computer, yet whenever I click on it to open, it doesn't. My windows just make a sound and then the WinRAR achiever opens to say that there were new files modified and created-- I can't open the game! How do you fix this?
EDIT: My computer says "Could not open, is it missing?" I extracted it again, clicked, then it's gone. I swear, I think my PC is broken ;-; I wanna play it SO bad!!
I believe you may be having a problem several other people had, a firewall or virus scanner is removing the file because it isn't from a well-known source and something in it seems strange. We don't know why some people's computers think it's unsafe, the game is really harmless, but to fix that you'll either have to turn off any scanners you have or find a way to tell those programs you trust the file.
Or there might have been a problem with download in the first place, sometimes things just go kind of weird and the file isn't able to then work right. So you could also try downloading it all again.
I hope you're able to have it work out!
Hmm, It still didn't work, I tried it on Steam and it shows that it was paused 'cause it had missing downloaded files? Correct me if I'm wrong! It still won't download anywhere :((
Then it is likely you have a program somewhere on your computer that's blocking the file regardless of where you're downloading it. Can you check if there's a firewall or virus scanner somewhere? I'm sorry for the trouble.
Oh! I already played it! It's amazing!! I recommended to my friends, good job on the game! (I just used an emulator on PC and all went well ^^) Thank you so much for this game! I can't believe this quality of otome is free, I'm not complaining though, haha! By any chance, are you Filipino? ^ . ^
I'm really glad you were able to play it ^^. Sorry for the trouble with getting it to work. And I'm not Filipino myself.
I wish this game would have more steps after step 4.
Step 5 dealing with pregnancy or adoption between Cove and MC.
Lastly a Step 6 where you're actually dealing with parenthood and your marriage.
I would pay for this.
OMG YES SAME!!!!
They do already have plans for a sequel. They've discussed it on their Patreon.
I'm pretty sure that's a stand-alone sequel with new characters? It's just the same as this one in the sense that you follow the same formula of growing up with one/two people and experience a life together in different steps. I could be wrong, but that's what I've gathered
Since they're asking about art styles for a Cove older than he will be in Step 4, I figured it'd be a sequel, but it's true they haven't revealed much. I haven't gone through all their posts, but I haven't seen anything that specifies what OL2:N&F will be like.
Sorry for the confusion on that. Cove was only used in the art samples so the new love interests' designs weren't spoiled. Our Life: Now & Forever will have similar features to Beginnings & Always and the tone is the same, but the setting and characters are all brand new. I'm afraid the Step 4 wedding DLC with Cove is as far as his story will go. There won't be a time period past that. I'm happy you'd like to continue seeing more of him, though!
Okay. I love the concept anyway! Thanks for clearing that up.
Honestly, anything which provides more life with Cove would be excellent.
This has been amazingly therapeutic. I didn't get to experience a wholesome childhood crush; my teenage years were complicated by fundamentalist religion. It's so healing to get to work through my own feelings about how it would be if I had 2 moms, if I could talk about my gender with friends who accept me. I feel... okay. I get to feel okay. I'm much older now, so I have gotten to surround myself with a loving family, but it's still good to understand it wasn't my fault that everything was broken in my childhood, the world just wasn't made for me. If I had always had this support, not just in my later years, but throughout my life, I would have been okay. Thank you for this.
I am very old. I grew up in the 70s in rural England. To be gay was to face daily abuse and to be an outcast (I am not exagerating). I was never brave enough for that. I didn't even know what my sexuality was growing up. I just knew that I was not like the people around me. Imagine reaching the moment where Cove tells you his sexuality, and having learned everything about him so far, it all falls into place. I am the same sexuality as Cove. I can tell you, I cried uncontrollably for a couple of minutes. But not through sadness, just raw emotion. After 57 years I discover that there must be other people like me. You will understand how much this "game" means to me. So when you say that this game is theraputic, I know exactly where you are coming from.
Hello Zevvi, I saw your post and felt the need to reply. I was in my 30's once I learned what I am. I am VERY HAPPY for you! I understand some of the feelings your having. I cried tears of joy once I realized I wasn't alone and that there were others like me.
I myself am asexual. Demisexual falls w/in the spectrum of asexuality so you may be interested in learning more about the orientation and connecting with others through this website...
https://www.asexuality.org/
CONGRATULATIONS! I give you a virtual hug.
This game means a lot to me too. The way Cove interacts with the player and has to do a few "test runs" before he can be comfortable doing anything physical is very like my own experience. I'm so glad the creators made this game. It's just the kind of media and representation I wish existed when I was Cove's age and confused.
Hi gingerDee. Really nice to hear from you. Thanks for your message. Thanks so much for the link, and the virtual hug, I appreciate it, and send one back :)
I'm sure that a lot of people feel the way we do about this game. ( as I've said elsewhere, game just does not seem an adequate word to describe it).
I, just a moment ago subscribed on the Patrion site to help fund the GB Patch developers. Our Life means so much to me, I felt it was the very least that I should do.
You said "It's just the kind of media and representation I wish existed when I was Cove's age and confused." I could not put it better myself. Had I understood myself better, then I might have possibly been more understanding of others too. I think that my biggest regrets are not understanding other people in the past. When I was in sixth form, I remember a guy telling me out of the blue that he is gay (this was the 70s, he could have been abused and become an outcast for saying that, but he told me), and I didn't have a clue what to say. I am filled with shame looking back on it, he put his trust in me, yet I had nothing for him, because I didn't understand. I spoke to no one else about it, but I never talked to him about it ever again either. How awful is that.
The one big thing that this game has changed in me is that I feel open about it all. If anyone asks me anything about my feelings then I will now tell them the honest truth without embarassment. Before, I was completely evasive, because I felt that I didn't really know what the truth was. It is a liberating feeling.
So thanks again for your message, I really do appreciate it :)
Thank you for sharing. <3
Well when I discover this game almost a year ago, I just knew that it was pure gold.
I was right. This game is so wonderful that I have dificulties to find the rights words to express how I feel right now.
I was so deep in the story that I played the entire game whitout a break (Well excepts those few times were I had to grab tissues to clean my crying face, haha)
I just feel sad that I don't know anything about coding and stuff, otherwise I would have happily tried to translate the game in my mother tongue just to give it more visibility in my own country. Because trust me, you deserve it !
Like I said in a previous comment, this kind of project looks really complex to make, so I hope all the people who contribute to create this beautiful game are happy and proud with what they achieved !
So thanks you so much for all your efforts and time to give people such a good game. And please, don't forget to think about yourself too and to not pushing yourselves to hard !
Thanks again and sorry for such a long comment, haha
It is a truly beautiful experience. You are right, it would be so nice if it could be made accessible in other languages. I am English/French, but I'm afraid that my French does not have the nuance to do justice to this wonderful work of art. To call it a game really does not seem adequate.
Hehe I'm little flustered, I didnt expect someone to reply me. But yeah I understand the feeling I guess. More than a game its a way to heal, understand yourself a little better and regain faith in humanity. A reminder that this world isnt only made by narrow minded people who want to crush all your dreams and hope.
I've spent over 7 and a half hours playing this game and I've finished most of the currently playable content. I've got to say we're all blessed to have been able to get a novel of this quality for free. I'm looking forward to any future updates and will support the creators whenever I can
Edit: A word
This is one of the best games i've ever played! I've almost cried and have felt emotional towards Cove. Liz is one of my favorite characters! This game is great 10/10 would play again- no, WILL play again!
"Almost" cried? Do you have a heart of ice ;) I'm a 57 year old man, and more than once I had tears rolling down my cheeks. :)
who else cried during the game. Also i have a really unhealthy obsession with Cove that I've been drawing my character and Cove together. I LOOOOOVE THIS GAME! also I would love to share my art if anyone is interested.
Ofcourse I cried, who wouldn't? How could you not be obsessed with Cove. You meet him crying uncontrollably all alone at the beach, anyone with a heart would be desperate to make him feel OK. Then as you get to know him, he is absolutely adorable. I think that your reaction is 100% understandable :)
thank u! I feel u!
So, I didn't even go 5 minutes after finding out about the release before buying the DLC. Since the release, I've lost track of how many times I've played. The first time after the release I cried several times while playing because some scenarios hit really close to home (it was a good, much needed cry).
Seriously one of the best, if not THE BEST, game I've ever played. I'm waiting so impatiently for the Step 3 DLC, but I'm trying to reign it in. I know perfection takes time!
Sad to see my Jeremy be so angry, but kinda cool to see how he was before entering high school. I couldn't imagine him being angry when I played XOXO Droplets, now I'll always know how much of a jackass he truly was...
Kinda wish the Android DLC played nicely all together rather than having to install it whenever I get to that Step, but I keep playing on my computer anyway.
guys- i just finished the story and im crying :( im in love with cove and the moms and the sister and everyone!!! i'm struggling with some things right now and this story helped me to forget the bad feelings i was feeling. im looking foward to the next chapter! thank u so much for rep the lgbtq+ community, i wasnt expecting this. i am demisexual and i felt really emotional seeing this kind of representation <3
I just finished the game and i'm a little curious on what I saw for phase 4, I noticed a white bouquet. Pllllzzzzz tell me we are marrying Cove!
Yes! Step 4 will have a special DLC where you can marry Cove and plan your wedding to him!!! I an impatiently waiting for it!!!!
WHAT?!?! OMG THANK YOU FOR THE SPOILER! ;;_;; Literaly crying right now. I NEED STEP 4 ! ._. Like....NOW! XD
IM SAVING MY MONEY FOR THAT DLC
After a long time i decided to play this game a second time! And i was GREATLY BLOWN AWAY! I really love the whole story I get to create with Cove!
This game is basically my life now!
i love it soooo much, it is so cute and beautiful, i was screaming through the game because how cute Cove is. This art styles are ABSOLUTELY AMAZING, EVERY SINGLE THING ABOUT THIS GAME IS AMAZING. and i love that fact that we have a lot of choices to make so often, it make the game so much better and not boring
1000/10 loving it :)
I don't know if it's a glitch, but before starting the second part it has the Comfort and Interest meter. It won't let me increase the Interest meter at all
Crush is the highest level of interest you can get until you get to Step 3. Once they're adults, it can be increased to love.
Interest levels can only be raised, never lowered. Comfort can be both lowered and raised. Before starting each step, you can adjust the meters to your preference.
Oh! Thanks for letting me know. I spent ages trying to make it move up lol.
No problem! It's a pretty unique mechanic for these sorts of games, and it's really cool seeing how dialogue and such changes depending on what interest/comfort combos you choose!
I really enjoyed the life aspects of the game. The characters and world feel absolutely real, and I was deeply invested in them.
I was surprised at the journey it took me on, too. I found myself thinking pretty intensely about my childhood, my gender, and my relationships with my parents and my peers for the first time in a while. Caught me off guard, made me think, and gave me a little happiness I think I may have missed out on.
Cove's a cutie, and his personality and worldview developing is amazing to watch and grow with. Thanks so much for this game, guys! Seriously.
Yes, it is a beautiful game. Cove is totally adorable. And yes, it is a game that had me continually reflecting on my life, and life decisions. If only I could have grown up with someone like Cove by my side, life would have been perfect.
i eagerly waited for this game to release and there are lots of things i liked about it—the art, how decisions and memories early on in the game made an appearance later on, the personalities of the characters. i definitely felt emotionally invested in different relationships and it was hard for me to say goodbye when that time came.
as someone that is big on romance though, i wish there was...more. i liked all of the other characters but i sometimes found myself skipping forward until i could have more alone time to bond with cove and make progress with the romantic side of our relationship. i am probably alone in this but it would have been nice in steps 2 and 3, if mc had a direct crush and/or was in love with cove, the family bit would feature a little less and the romance part was more prominent. romance didn't feel like a highlight of this game for me.
i also felt weird about choosing romance options i thought were typical in teen romance that seemed to initially make cove uncomfortable. i get that he struggles with certain forms of intimacy which is why i wish especially in step 3, we saw less of the family and friends and more moments of just mc and cove. by the end of the game i found myself craving more romance moments with cove and i bought both dlcs and played through them a couple times.
SPOILERS FROM STEP 3!!!!
I love this game.
It feels so nostalgic, especially near the end when you are saying goodbye to cove's parents, and the little chat MC and him have before the credits roll. The credits song is so pretty, loved every second of this experience.
It makes me feel loved and fuzzy inside, even if they are just fictional characters. It shows how real they feel and the real development they have.
TLDR: 10/10, will play again.
I played this game before It was fully released and I just realized today that the full game is out, I just want to say thank you for making a great game and I look forward to your next projects!!!
This is a beautiful game. And yes, the characters are very well imagined. Cove is completely adorable, he felt totally real to me. So you can imagine how it felt to finish the game. I can recommend other games with amazing characters (but without the sexual attraction). DONTNOD's "Life is strange 2" has two brothers on the run from the police after their father is mistakenly shot by the police, that game is an emotional roller coaster. You will feel you want to move heaven and earth to help Sean and Daniel. DONTNOD's "Tell me why" is nice too. But "Our Life" has to be the most memorable and beautiful game I've ever played, and Cove, the most real and adorable character.
this was absolutely incredible, I had so much fun playing. It was so comforting and lovely and so so sweet I had so much fun <3 amazing job!!
I am so, absolutely enamored by this game. Everything about it has entranced me and I can't help but want more. It normally takes me a while to replay games after I experience them -- especially visual novels.
I played this three times in a row and had that same magnificent experience the entire time. It's so cute, so warm, and I love being able to be totally comfortable with my choices. I can play a character, or I can be myself, but I never have that issue of being uncomfortable. This game really speaks to its title. It's not just about the player, it's about Cove and everyone the player grows to know and love and what they do. It's gorgeous. Please play it too.
I can't wait for the future, and I can't wait to be able to afford all the DLC. I love everything this game has had to offer. Thank you so much for creating it. I hope Cove knows that I adore him lolol <3
I made account just to say this is the best visual novel I ever played. I feel in love with Cove immediately and felt invested in the relationship. I don't even have the words to say how much this impacted me. I bought the DLCs for my second playthrough. Love this so much
it's an amazing game, I like the story, I like the way the characters look.
It's so great that we can choose exactly what we are and what we look like
and I also really like that we can choose what Cove looks like <3
I finished the game and I have to be honest, it was a really pleasant and welcomed treat. I'd say it's quite realistic, especially with the type of options you get to choose to say. I like how you can be there for Cove to help him realize the world around him and kind of help him get out of his comfort zone to make him more social. It felt really... casual? Like it felt like you were actually there interacting with the characters and made you create this bond with them that you will never forget. Made me tear up a bit after it all ended, but overall the writing and pacing was well made. The visuals are stunning and the audio was greatly done. In short 10/10, am definitely excited for the epilogue. It definitely gave me a euphoric memory I'll hopefully never forget. I also made this account just to say how beautiful this game was.
Just finished my first complete playthrough. I really loved it, both dlcs were really great too and I can't wait for more content when it comes out. This was a very love-filled game, with strong bonds of family and friendship. Thank you for making this!
this game is just PERFECT i its been a long time since i fell in love with a game like this the storylines are amazing,the characters are the best all of them i dont hate or dislike any of them except jeremy f*ck that little brat i want more kyra though she is soooooooooo hott i was actually hoping by the end of step 2 she would stay but unfortunetly she still left that made me sad and that family moment in step 2 was REALLY heavy but it was really good it was sad and heartbreaking i just cant any anything bad about your game this is just TOO perfect from beginnning to end i cant wait for future DLC'S i will buy every single one of them i had no idea what to expect when i start playing this and now i cant and i dont want to stop so its your fault am now addicting to this game and to its characters.
*raises hand* Yes - Hi, I'd like to formally request more Lee. And Liz. And Moms. You know what -- just go ahead and make an entire game featuring MC's family. Here's my money. K-thanks.
Srsly though - my GOODNESS. I know Cove's on the cover (and he is lovely - as is Derek and Baxter), but I Legit cried most from interactions with fam. It's so HEALTHY. That doesn't mean they don't have their issues - but to actually see genuine Unconditional Love - that doesn't exist in many RL families- ...You've cleared my skin and watered my crops. Lee (Best Cousin), Liz (Best Big Sissy) and Moms (just - Best) have my Entire Heart and you just about near killed me with them in Step 3. Please - Moar
I cant agree more, tbh, im so in love with this game because its not really about getting the guy, its about growing together,not only with Cove, but with the entire family your MC has. I dont even have the will to press any negative interactions with them because i just love them so much i cant help it ;_; I cried so much at the Home moment in step 2.
Well said! I knew Lee all of 5 seconds before she lived in my mind and heart rent-free. I've never seen such Pure, Loving, Supportive precious. And I always Loved Lizze. Pretty sure I woke the neighbors when I found out we majored in the same thing in college. There is also No Moms moment I don't 100% enjoy. A choice between family and Cove with my MC typically goes like: 'Cove. I love you, you're so wonderful - *SLAMS THE FAMILY BUTTON*' Poor guy. lol
XD SAME! Poor Cove, but i dont regret anything, i genuenly belive that Cove also needs to grow on his own family as well as my MC, and i adore the fact that they showed it. Thats why i think this game has a very mature way of portraiting love in youth. You are both still growing and at the same time finding who you are. And i really like how they aproached it. ;_;
Hello dear GBPatch, unfortunately I had no time to write a review before, because I had to play a wonderful game. Again and again. Before I wrote this is the best game in this genre I tried out. This IS THE BEST GAME I ever played in this Genre. It is wonderful sweet and romantic, and I feel like a little teenie again (which I am not).
I am looking forward to every DLC you will present us. But I haven't tried every possible way, so I am satisfied for now.
Thank you for making this great game. I hope there is much more to come from you. And congratulation to create a game, which is able to seriously tickle your heart.
Wow, I just finished the game and I feel very...emotional? It really exceeded my expectations and I'm looking forward to everything the future holds for this! Honestly, I loved every second that I played. I feel that everything combines: the music, the characters and the writing style~.
I didn't know whether to leave this written here or on Steam, but I had to say how much I loved it. Although I cried, I also laughed. It made me feel very comfortable and as if I really mattered. It made me realize many things and I connected so much with Cove and the rest of the characters that I was very sad to know that the game would end at some point, haha. He accompanied me during all the hours of play and I felt very happy playing. It really was a great experience. I can't wait to see what you'll do in the future^^.
I'm going to wait for the epilogue and the rest of the DLCs, and from what I've read there will also be a sequel, so I'll be looking forward to it!
Thank you very much for creating this game, it has definitely become my favorite visual novel since the day I tried the first demo ♡ .
I know your first question will be answered in step 4, and I'm pretty sure they are ok with headcanons
Holy, I can't believe how good this game really is! I've recently just finished the game and just wow.
Coming into it, I didn't think I really wanted to have a romantic relationship with Cove. But as my character got to know him more and more, I started to like him and eventually chose to pursue a relationship with him.
My MC started off as a sorta shy and awkward person and then eventually became extroverted and very comfortable around Cove, whose personality and appearance was impacted by the choices I made, was one that I really adored.
Cove and the MC's love for each other was so sweet. I loved every single second of it and I still can't believe this game doesn't cost like 20 dollars at least!
Thank you so much GBPatch for making this! I'll look forward in the sequel for Our Life :)
Wooooooo SPOILER ALERT - Don't read unless you really want to!
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I nearly chocked from laughter from the booty option xD! My heart just exploded from this; gosh darn it, I need to steady my heart xD The creators pulled a sneaky one on me, heck yeah! You guys rock ;D!
Omg...!
I didn’t get the butt and chest options... Do you know what could have unlocked them for you? I kinda wanna check them out too... 😳
Hey hey! :) I've lost count of how many times I replayed this game and I honestly don't know which options lead to this result but I can take a gamble; what I did: at childgood I selected max comfort and a crush level, for step 2&3 I maxed both meters. I often selected actionss that showed upfront fondness (there's no right or wrong, it probably just shows how direct or indirect you are at being close); I had the first kiss scene in step 2 where the MC and Cove can't oficially date yet since they're not adults yet. In step 3 I chose options where both characters were dating for years, maybe this had an impact? Uff it's hard to tell, but I think if you replay the game it's bound to happen :D this game is just too amazing to play it just once! xD I hope this helps!
Thanks for help!! I think that the upfrontness was the thing that did it for me!
Again, thanks for responding!! ❤️
I'm happy that I could help :D!
I actually made an account just to write this review so uh here goes-
I've been waiting for this game to come out since like May or June when I found it and when I got the notification that this game came out I couldn't wait to play it. And when I did play it I was blown away. This game passed all my expectations, not that I even had many but I just eajfewcejvfbg. I can't rlly describe the feelings this game made me feel but I stayed up till 2 am playing this and when it ended I had a heck of a crying session. It makes me sad to even think about it :') plus i'm a closeted bisexual and having parents in the game who actually supported me and loved me regardless of who I was just made me so so so sad. And Cove oh my gosh I just-
Sentimental stuff aside, the game was just *chefs kiss* There were literally no mistakes, everything was so smooth and the dialogue was so believable it made me cry :") The personalization rlly made the entire game hit especially hard.
The writing, the art, the music, the vibes just everything about this game was perfect. Thank you so so so much for making this game, it will always have a special place in my heart :)
I feel the same about it. The game is beautiful.