This game already holds a very special place in my heart. I mostly played it on my phone to wind down before bed, and it gave me a bunch of feel-good moments from start to finish. It had such a big emotional impact I actually genuinely teared up and laughed out loud at a few points. It's comforting to know this world will always be there to come back to, a place with countless opportunities to make good memories, where problems are met with reassurance and a chance to grow. I'd recommend it to anyone, especially if you're going through any sort of rough time. It's a carefully curated but organic-feeling simulation and I love it very much.
Literally the BEST visual novel I'VE EVER PLAYED, YET. I CAN'T GET TIRED FROM PLAYING THIS! This has everything a visual novelist would crave about. Like I'm sooo impressed from this game, let me cry- xdd. fr this game is the best. Our life? Nah. This game is changing MY life. ILY GB PATCH GAMESSS.
AHHHH this game, truly, has given me serious nostalgia!! Just... the vivid feelings of childhood and then adolescence and then the feeling of leaving it all behind when you finally graduate high school. It has given me feelings... warm, summer-y, bittersweet feelings that no other games have ever given. And for that, I am so thankful. I do look forward to the part 4 epilogue + the new DLCs in the future!! This game was so unique and wholesome, thank you so much for this <33 (btw I CHERISH Cove)
You better extend the story and add more dlcs xD like; work life, school life, part time school-work time, pre marriage, and then wedding, and even after the wedding!!
I like the cove's mom. I want to spend more time with them [cove's mom and dad] as a family. I would want a portion of the main story to continue where the whole family and then each family go on vacation or spend more time together . Maybe go to a vacation trip out of the US too!! XD I want to interact more with all the romantic interests and their family as well
A DLC to add more options to the trip. Like give us the option to "buy" within the game different type of trip packages. If we bought the DLC allow us to "buy in game/the DLC of course" the most expensive trip to (Europe, Asian, South America, Africa, etc. ). It would be a good idea to have different destination according to the romance interest's preference. Like Cove and family would like to go to one place, Dexter and his family would like to travel to another location, etc. Let us buy those DLCs. If you would want to just see Cove's family and his route then just get that one DLC and the other options can stay gray [locked]. I really enjoy the game so much xD. I want to travel with all of the romance interests since cove is always tagging alone since he is our friend. It would be nice to see how they bond with Cove as a close friend since Cove is a family friend, too. We won't get rid of him.
Another option for people who decided to be single for a bit longer or just want to be single. A good idea would be to have the sister, the cousin, Miranda, her gf [I forgot her name @_@], Cove, and another friend [the romance interest we decided not to romance but want to be friends with them]
I want to see the wedding and a after wedding and a possible a few years after having kids with whoever u romance. if you decided to be single you get the option to adopt just like your mothers! It would be a good idea to meet the other guys friends, too. I would like to maybe make friends in one of the DLCs. If we become friends with someone, they can keep in contact and get some sort of communication until they visit us? [only for people who bought the DLC]. Of course, having another male friend who is not interested at you in a romantic way would be nice.
I dunno, but I want to see more about the MC life [the character we made] how we interact with new faces and maybe that is a good option to make more friends [and the male friends cuz I don't want to have just female friends LOL]. I want to see how I could life as a full time student, full time worker, or a half time student/work in game.
Have u considered to add a +18 dlc content for example to ur patreon members, of course paying for the DLCs in game. ×). I know this is a style some other groups do.. just saying. Sorry for the long comment xD
agh! I can't believe I already finished the game! I hope there will be step 4 soon and maybe Cove and MC might get married soon in the future ^-^?! anyways I love this game thank you for making it, it has been a pleasure!
I've now finished the game and all of the DLC that has been released so far and I feel like I am far from done with this amazing cast of characters... I cannot wait for everything else you have in store and will get it all as soon as it comes out. Congratulations on the team for giving me some serious feels and moving me to happy tears (and thank you for the demisexual representation)! It's an amazing adventure.
I really can't get enough with this game, a friend recommended me this And I've been glued to my phone since. I've replayed this so many times and it doesn't get boring at all! I'd recommended playing this game! 10/10!! Patiently waiting for step 4 ❤️
This is the most beautiful game I've ever played. The only negative thing I have to say is that the story does not continue for ever. Play it, you will never want to leave Cove behind.
I have no words. It was just beautiful and I almost cried so many times because of how emtional it was. Can´t even imagine how hard and how long it took to make this. I reeally enjoyed it and I can´t wayt for the step 4.
You have to get the Derek and Baxter DLCs, which aren't available right now. The Step 1 DLC only unlocks a CG in the Step 1 section and the Step 2 DLC only unlocks one CG in the Step 2 section. Those DLCs don't impact the Step 3 part of the gallery or the Derek/Baxter part of the gallery. I'm sorry for the confusion.
Omg loved it so much, Usually, my types of games have more heated romance but honestly this beats all by FAR. I really love the meaningful romance and how intricate the decisions and choices are. I loved it as soon as I got in and was like OMG I HAVE TWO MOMS. YASSSS. I loved how your gender could differ from your birth gender, you could design your room, the love interest's level of interest as well as yours, who you are romantically and physically attracted to ect. It was super fun to play and I am looking forward to future developments and projects. TYSM for taking the time to make it.
We have the same issue, but I'm REALLY sure it's the game's files that has a problem. It's in the folder for ren'py in 'lib' there's nothing there! I wanna play it too! :(( Have you tried disabling your anti-virus?
Are you still having problems? It's possible your computer's virus scanner isn't allowing the game to work right. If you have a firewall/virus scanner can you try turning that off while downloading/installing/launching or try to tell the program the file is safe?
This game seems amazing and I want to play it, But it keeps saying "could not open file, is it missing?". I'm using Pea zip. I extracted it and checked all the other files. Can someone help please?I want to play this game so bad-
Someone else had the same problem just a little bit ago. My answer to them was this--- I believe you may be having a problem several other people had, a firewall or virus scanner is removing the file because it isn't from a well-known source and something in it seems strange. We don't know why some people's computers think it's unsafe, the game is really harmless, but to fix that you'll either have to turn off any scanners you have or find a way to tell those programs you trust the file.
Or there might have been a problem with download in the first place, sometimes things just go kind of weird and the file isn't able to then work right. So you could also try downloading it all again.
Since two people are both suddenly getting the "could not open missing file" thing it does make me wonder if there's a problem right now with downloading content from Itch. Maybe try downloading again later on.
Hey! Unfortunately, it looks like the game didn't really install right. The actual start of the game just isn't there for you. It's possible the way you unzipped it didn't work properly or that your antivirus is removing content from the game because it still doesn't trust it. Maybe try another program for unzipping the file or double checking what's going on with your virus scanner? I'm sorry for the trouble.
Hey! Sorry for replying so late, I tried unzipping using a different unzipping software and it worked! The game was amazing and if I had money I would definitely buy the DLCs.
I'm having some trouble opening the game... I'm on PC and I have fully extracted it to my computer, yet whenever I click on it to open, it doesn't. My windows just make a sound and then the WinRAR achiever opens to say that there were new files modified and created-- I can't open the game! How do you fix this?
EDIT: My computer says "Could not open, is it missing?" I extracted it again, clicked, then it's gone. I swear, I think my PC is broken ;-; I wanna play it SO bad!!
I believe you may be having a problem several other people had, a firewall or virus scanner is removing the file because it isn't from a well-known source and something in it seems strange. We don't know why some people's computers think it's unsafe, the game is really harmless, but to fix that you'll either have to turn off any scanners you have or find a way to tell those programs you trust the file.
Or there might have been a problem with download in the first place, sometimes things just go kind of weird and the file isn't able to then work right. So you could also try downloading it all again.
Hmm, It still didn't work, I tried it on Steam and it shows that it was paused 'cause it had missing downloaded files? Correct me if I'm wrong! It still won't download anywhere :((
Then it is likely you have a program somewhere on your computer that's blocking the file regardless of where you're downloading it. Can you check if there's a firewall or virus scanner somewhere? I'm sorry for the trouble.
Oh! I already played it! It's amazing!! I recommended to my friends, good job on the game! (I just used an emulator on PC and all went well ^^) Thank you so much for this game! I can't believe this quality of otome is free, I'm not complaining though, haha! By any chance, are you Filipino? ^ . ^
I'm pretty sure that's a stand-alone sequel with new characters? It's just the same as this one in the sense that you follow the same formula of growing up with one/two people and experience a life together in different steps. I could be wrong, but that's what I've gathered
Since they're asking about art styles for a Cove older than he will be in Step 4, I figured it'd be a sequel, but it's true they haven't revealed much. I haven't gone through all their posts, but I haven't seen anything that specifies what OL2:N&F will be like.
Sorry for the confusion on that. Cove was only used in the art samples so the new love interests' designs weren't spoiled. Our Life: Now & Forever will have similar features to Beginnings & Always and the tone is the same, but the setting and characters are all brand new. I'm afraid the Step 4 wedding DLC with Cove is as far as his story will go. There won't be a time period past that. I'm happy you'd like to continue seeing more of him, though!
This has been amazingly therapeutic. I didn't get to experience a wholesome childhood crush; my teenage years were complicated by fundamentalist religion. It's so healing to get to work through my own feelings about how it would be if I had 2 moms, if I could talk about my gender with friends who accept me. I feel... okay. I getto feel okay. I'm much older now, so I have gotten to surround myself with a loving family, but it's still good to understand it wasn't my fault that everything was broken in my childhood, the world just wasn't made for me. If I had always had this support, not just in my later years, but throughout my life, I would have been okay. Thank you for this.
I am very old. I grew up in the 70s in rural England. To be gay was to face daily abuse and to be an outcast (I am not exagerating). I was never brave enough for that. I didn't even know what my sexuality was growing up. I just knew that I was not like the people around me. Imagine reaching the moment where Cove tells you his sexuality, and having learned everything about him so far, it all falls into place. I am the same sexuality as Cove. I can tell you, I cried uncontrollably for a couple of minutes. But not through sadness, just raw emotion. After 57 years I discover that there must be other people like me. You will understand how much this "game" means to me. So when you say that this game is theraputic, I know exactly where you are coming from.
Hello Zevvi, I saw your post and felt the need to reply. I was in my 30's once I learned what I am. I am VERY HAPPY for you! I understand some of the feelings your having. I cried tears of joy once I realized I wasn't alone and that there were others like me.
I myself am asexual. Demisexual falls w/in the spectrum of asexuality so you may be interested in learning more about the orientation and connecting with others through this website...
This game means a lot to me too. The way Cove interacts with the player and has to do a few "test runs" before he can be comfortable doing anything physical is very like my own experience. I'm so glad the creators made this game. It's just the kind of media and representation I wish existed when I was Cove's age and confused.
Hi gingerDee. Really nice to hear from you. Thanks for your message. Thanks so much for the link, and the virtual hug, I appreciate it, and send one back :)
I'm sure that a lot of people feel the way we do about this game. ( as I've said elsewhere, game just does not seem an adequate word to describe it).
I, just a moment ago subscribed on the Patrion site to help fund the GB Patch developers. Our Life means so much to me, I felt it was the very least that I should do.
You said "It's just the kind of media and representation I wish existed when I was Cove's age and confused." I could not put it better myself. Had I understood myself better, then I might have possibly been more understanding of others too. I think that my biggest regrets are not understanding other people in the past. When I was in sixth form, I remember a guy telling me out of the blue that he is gay (this was the 70s, he could have been abused and become an outcast for saying that, but he told me), and I didn't have a clue what to say. I am filled with shame looking back on it, he put his trust in me, yet I had nothing for him, because I didn't understand. I spoke to no one else about it, but I never talked to him about it ever again either. How awful is that.
The one big thing that this game has changed in me is that I feel open about it all. If anyone asks me anything about my feelings then I will now tell them the honest truth without embarassment. Before, I was completely evasive, because I felt that I didn't really know what the truth was. It is a liberating feeling.
So thanks again for your message, I really do appreciate it :)
Well when I discover this game almost a year ago, I just knew that it was pure gold.
I was right. This game is so wonderful that I have dificulties to find the rights words to express how I feel right now.
I was so deep in the story that I played the entire game whitout a break (Well excepts those few times were I had to grab tissues to clean my crying face, haha)
I just feel sad that I don't know anything about coding and stuff, otherwise I would have happily tried to translate the game in my mother tongue just to give it more visibility in my own country. Because trust me, you deserve it !
Like I said in a previous comment, this kind of project looks really complex to make, so I hope all the people who contribute to create this beautiful game are happy and proud with what they achieved !
So thanks you so much for all your efforts and time to give people such a good game. And please, don't forget to think about yourself too and to not pushing yourselves to hard !
Thanks again and sorry for such a long comment, haha
It is a truly beautiful experience. You are right, it would be so nice if it could be made accessible in other languages. I am English/French, but I'm afraid that my French does not have the nuance to do justice to this wonderful work of art. To call it a game really does not seem adequate.
Hehe I'm little flustered, I didnt expect someone to reply me. But yeah I understand the feeling I guess. More than a game its a way to heal, understand yourself a little better and regain faith in humanity. A reminder that this world isnt only made by narrow minded people who want to crush all your dreams and hope.
I've spent over 7 and a half hours playing this game and I've finished most of the currently playable content. I've got to say we're all blessed to have been able to get a novel of this quality for free. I'm looking forward to any future updates and will support the creators whenever I can
This is one of the best games i've ever played! I've almost cried and have felt emotional towards Cove. Liz is one of my favorite characters! This game is great 10/10 would play again- no, WILL play again!
who else cried during the game. Also i have a really unhealthy obsession with Cove that I've been drawing my character and Cove together. I LOOOOOVE THIS GAME! also I would love to share my art if anyone is interested.
Ofcourse I cried, who wouldn't? How could you not be obsessed with Cove. You meet him crying uncontrollably all alone at the beach, anyone with a heart would be desperate to make him feel OK. Then as you get to know him, he is absolutely adorable. I think that your reaction is 100% understandable :)
So, I didn't even go 5 minutes after finding out about the release before buying the DLC. Since the release, I've lost track of how many times I've played. The first time after the release I cried several times while playing because some scenarios hit really close to home (it was a good, much needed cry).
Seriously one of the best, if not THE BEST, game I've ever played. I'm waiting so impatiently for the Step 3 DLC, but I'm trying to reign it in. I know perfection takes time!
Sad to see my Jeremy be so angry, but kinda cool to see how he was before entering high school. I couldn't imagine him being angry when I played XOXO Droplets, now I'll always know how much of a jackass he truly was...
Kinda wish the Android DLC played nicely all together rather than having to install it whenever I get to that Step, but I keep playing on my computer anyway.
guys- i just finished the story and im crying :( im in love with cove and the moms and the sister and everyone!!! i'm struggling with some things right now and this story helped me to forget the bad feelings i was feeling. im looking foward to the next chapter! thank u so much for rep the lgbtq+ community, i wasnt expecting this. i am demisexual and i felt really emotional seeing this kind of representation <3
i love it soooo much, it is so cute and beautiful, i was screaming through the game because how cute Cove is. This art styles are ABSOLUTELY AMAZING, EVERY SINGLE THING ABOUT THIS GAME IS AMAZING. and i love that fact that we have a lot of choices to make so often, it make the game so much better and not boring
I don't know if it's a glitch, but before starting the second part it has the Comfort and Interest meter. It won't let me increase the Interest meter at all
Crush is the highest level of interest you can get until you get to Step 3. Once they're adults, it can be increased to love.
Interest levels can only be raised, never lowered. Comfort can be both lowered and raised. Before starting each step, you can adjust the meters to your preference.
No problem! It's a pretty unique mechanic for these sorts of games, and it's really cool seeing how dialogue and such changes depending on what interest/comfort combos you choose!
I really enjoyed the life aspects of the game. The characters and world feel absolutely real, and I was deeply invested in them.
I was surprised at the journey it took me on, too. I found myself thinking pretty intensely about my childhood, my gender, and my relationships with my parents and my peers for the first time in a while. Caught me off guard, made me think, and gave me a little happiness I think I may have missed out on.
Cove's a cutie, and his personality and worldview developing is amazing to watch and grow with. Thanks so much for this game, guys! Seriously.
Yes, it is a beautiful game. Cove is totally adorable. And yes, it is a game that had me continually reflecting on my life, and life decisions. If only I could have grown up with someone like Cove by my side, life would have been perfect.
i eagerly waited for this game to release and there are lots of things i liked about it—the art, how decisions and memories early on in the game made an appearance later on, the personalities of the characters. i definitely felt emotionally invested in different relationships and it was hard for me to say goodbye when that time came.
as someone that is big on romance though, i wish there was...more. i liked all of the other characters but i sometimes found myself skipping forward until i could have more alone time to bond with cove and make progress with the romantic side of our relationship. i am probably alone in this but it would have been nice in steps 2 and 3, if mc had a direct crush and/or was in love with cove, the family bit would feature a little less and the romance part was more prominent. romance didn't feel like a highlight of this game for me.
i also felt weird about choosing romance options i thought were typical in teen romance that seemed to initially make cove uncomfortable. i get that he struggles with certain forms of intimacy which is why i wish especially in step 3, we saw less of the family and friends and more moments of just mc and cove. by the end of the game i found myself craving more romance moments with cove and i bought both dlcs and played through them a couple times.
It feels so nostalgic, especially near the end when you are saying goodbye to cove's parents, and the little chat MC and him have before the credits roll. The credits song is so pretty, loved every second of this experience.
It makes me feel loved and fuzzy inside, even if they are just fictional characters. It shows how real they feel and the real development they have.
I played this game before It was fully released and I just realized today that the full game is out, I just want to say thank you for making a great game and I look forward to your next projects!!!
This is a beautiful game. And yes, the characters are very well imagined. Cove is completely adorable, he felt totally real to me. So you can imagine how it felt to finish the game. I can recommend other games with amazing characters (but without the sexual attraction). DONTNOD's "Life is strange 2" has two brothers on the run from the police after their father is mistakenly shot by the police, that game is an emotional roller coaster. You will feel you want to move heaven and earth to help Sean and Daniel. DONTNOD's "Tell me why" is nice too. But "Our Life" has to be the most memorable and beautiful game I've ever played, and Cove, the most real and adorable character.
I am so, absolutely enamored by this game. Everything about it has entranced me and I can't help but want more. It normally takes me a while to replay games after I experience them -- especially visual novels.
I played this three times in a row and had that same magnificent experience the entire time. It's so cute, so warm, and I love being able to be totally comfortable with my choices. I can play a character, or I can be myself, but I never have that issue of being uncomfortable. This game really speaks to its title. It's not just about the player, it's about Cove and everyone the player grows to know and love and what they do. It's gorgeous. Please play it too.
I can't wait for the future, and I can't wait to be able to afford all the DLC. I love everything this game has had to offer. Thank you so much for creating it. I hope Cove knows that I adore him lolol <3
I made account just to say this is the best visual novel I ever played. I feel in love with Cove immediately and felt invested in the relationship. I don't even have the words to say how much this impacted me. I bought the DLCs for my second playthrough. Love this so much
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This game already holds a very special place in my heart. I mostly played it on my phone to wind down before bed, and it gave me a bunch of feel-good moments from start to finish. It had such a big emotional impact I actually genuinely teared up and laughed out loud at a few points. It's comforting to know this world will always be there to come back to, a place with countless opportunities to make good memories, where problems are met with reassurance and a chance to grow. I'd recommend it to anyone, especially if you're going through any sort of rough time. It's a carefully curated but organic-feeling simulation and I love it very much.
My friend has an iPhone, so would she use the android version or the macOS version?
in case you haven't already seen it, the dlc is out now!
Literally the BEST visual novel I'VE EVER PLAYED, YET. I CAN'T GET TIRED FROM PLAYING THIS! This has everything a visual novelist would crave about. Like I'm sooo impressed from this game, let me cry- xdd. fr this game is the best. Our life? Nah. This game is changing MY life. ILY GB PATCH GAMESSS.
AHHHH this game, truly, has given me serious nostalgia!! Just... the vivid feelings of childhood and then adolescence and then the feeling of leaving it all behind when you finally graduate high school. It has given me feelings... warm, summer-y, bittersweet feelings that no other games have ever given. And for that, I am so thankful. I do look forward to the part 4 epilogue + the new DLCs in the future!! This game was so unique and wholesome, thank you so much for this <33 (btw I CHERISH Cove)
You better extend the story and add more dlcs xD like; work life, school life, part time school-work time, pre marriage, and then wedding, and even after the wedding!!
I like the cove's mom. I want to spend more time with them [cove's mom and dad] as a family. I would want a portion of the main story to continue where the whole family and then each family go on vacation or spend more time together . Maybe go to a vacation trip out of the US too!! XD I want to interact more with all the romantic interests and their family as well
A DLC to add more options to the trip. Like give us the option to "buy" within the game different type of trip packages. If we bought the DLC allow us to "buy in game/the DLC of course" the most expensive trip to (Europe, Asian, South America, Africa, etc. ). It would be a good idea to have different destination according to the romance interest's preference. Like Cove and family would like to go to one place, Dexter and his family would like to travel to another location, etc. Let us buy those DLCs. If you would want to just see Cove's family and his route then just get that one DLC and the other options can stay gray [locked]. I really enjoy the game so much xD. I want to travel with all of the romance interests since cove is always tagging alone since he is our friend. It would be nice to see how they bond with Cove as a close friend since Cove is a family friend, too. We won't get rid of him.
Another option for people who decided to be single for a bit longer or just want to be single. A good idea would be to have the sister, the cousin, Miranda, her gf [I forgot her name @_@], Cove, and another friend [the romance interest we decided not to romance but want to be friends with them]
I want to see the wedding and a after wedding and a possible a few years after having kids with whoever u romance. if you decided to be single you get the option to adopt just like your mothers! It would be a good idea to meet the other guys friends, too. I would like to maybe make friends in one of the DLCs. If we become friends with someone, they can keep in contact and get some sort of communication until they visit us? [only for people who bought the DLC]. Of course, having another male friend who is not interested at you in a romantic way would be nice.
I dunno, but I want to see more about the MC life [the character we made] how we interact with new faces and maybe that is a good option to make more friends [and the male friends cuz I don't want to have just female friends LOL]. I want to see how I could life as a full time student, full time worker, or a half time student/work in game.
Have u considered to add a +18 dlc content for example to ur patreon members, of course paying for the DLCs in game. ×). I know this is a style some other groups do.. just saying. Sorry for the long comment xD
when is the birthday of the Cove, Derek, and Baxter respectively?
(灬･◡･灬)
cove's birthday is november 2nd! not sure about derek or baxter though
agh! I can't believe I already finished the game! I hope there will be step 4 soon and maybe Cove and MC might get married soon in the future ^-^?! anyways I love this game thank you for making it, it has been a pleasure!
I've now finished the game and all of the DLC that has been released so far and I feel like I am far from done with this amazing cast of characters... I cannot wait for everything else you have in store and will get it all as soon as it comes out. Congratulations on the team for giving me some serious feels and moving me to happy tears (and thank you for the demisexual representation)! It's an amazing adventure.
I really can't get enough with this game, a friend recommended me this And I've been glued to my phone since. I've replayed this so many times and it doesn't get boring at all! I'd recommended playing this game! 10/10!! Patiently waiting for step 4 ❤️
This is the most beautiful game I've ever played. The only negative thing I have to say is that the story does not continue for ever. Play it, you will never want to leave Cove behind.
i know that we are only getting step 4 2021 but i'm wondering if it'll come with the step 3 at the same time
The Step 3 DLC will be coming out first and then Step 4 will be released later on ^^
ILOVEit!! I can't wait for the third DLC. This game is AWESOME! i want their wedding xD
I have no words. It was just beautiful and I almost cried so many times because of how emtional it was. Can´t even imagine how hard and how long it took to make this. I reeally enjoyed it and I can´t wayt for the step 4.
how does one get the derek and baxter gallery? i bought the dlc on steam
You have to get the Derek and Baxter DLCs, which aren't available right now. The Step 1 DLC only unlocks a CG in the Step 1 section and the Step 2 DLC only unlocks one CG in the Step 2 section. Those DLCs don't impact the Step 3 part of the gallery or the Derek/Baxter part of the gallery. I'm sorry for the confusion.
thank you for clearing that
This is probably my favorite game i've found on here so far. I love how wholesome it is.
Omg loved it so much, Usually, my types of games have more heated romance but honestly this beats all by FAR. I really love the meaningful romance and how intricate the decisions and choices are. I loved it as soon as I got in and was like OMG I HAVE TWO MOMS. YASSSS. I loved how your gender could differ from your birth gender, you could design your room, the love interest's level of interest as well as yours, who you are romantically and physically attracted to ect. It was super fun to play and I am looking forward to future developments and projects. TYSM for taking the time to make it.
Did you have any problem with yours? I seem to have a problem opening mine oops, you're so luckyyy!
No I didnt? What platform are you downloading it on
i'm on PC, it seemed like there were 3 of us having a problem
Mac or Windows?
using windows
i reaaally wanna play this game so i installed it on my laptop but for some reason i cant open the game
We have the same issue, but I'm REALLY sure it's the game's files that has a problem. It's in the folder for ren'py in 'lib' there's nothing there! I wanna play it too! :(( Have you tried disabling your anti-virus?
not yet
You should try, It doesn't work on mine though. Maybe it works for you!
Are you still having problems? It's possible your computer's virus scanner isn't allowing the game to work right. If you have a firewall/virus scanner can you try turning that off while downloading/installing/launching or try to tell the program the file is safe?
This game seems amazing and I want to play it, But it keeps saying "could not open file, is it missing?". I'm using Pea zip. I extracted it and checked all the other files. Can someone help please?I want to play this game so bad-
Someone else had the same problem just a little bit ago. My answer to them was this---
I believe you may be having a problem several other people had, a firewall or virus scanner is removing the file because it isn't from a well-known source and something in it seems strange. We don't know why some people's computers think it's unsafe, the game is really harmless, but to fix that you'll either have to turn off any scanners you have or find a way to tell those programs you trust the file.
Or there might have been a problem with download in the first place, sometimes things just go kind of weird and the file isn't able to then work right. So you could also try downloading it all again.
Since two people are both suddenly getting the "could not open missing file" thing it does make me wonder if there's a problem right now with downloading content from Itch. Maybe try downloading again later on.
I hope you're able to have it work out!
Is there some file I need to open or use?-
I'm honestly confused-
Hey! Unfortunately, it looks like the game didn't really install right. The actual start of the game just isn't there for you. It's possible the way you unzipped it didn't work properly or that your antivirus is removing content from the game because it still doesn't trust it. Maybe try another program for unzipping the file or double checking what's going on with your virus scanner? I'm sorry for the trouble.
Hey! Sorry for replying so late, I tried unzipping using a different unzipping software and it worked! The game was amazing and if I had money I would definitely buy the DLCs.
I'm so glad it worked out :D. Thank you!
I'm having some trouble opening the game... I'm on PC and I have fully extracted it to my computer, yet whenever I click on it to open, it doesn't. My windows just make a sound and then the WinRAR achiever opens to say that there were new files modified and created-- I can't open the game! How do you fix this?
EDIT: My computer says "Could not open, is it missing?" I extracted it again, clicked, then it's gone. I swear, I think my PC is broken ;-; I wanna play it SO bad!!
I believe you may be having a problem several other people had, a firewall or virus scanner is removing the file because it isn't from a well-known source and something in it seems strange. We don't know why some people's computers think it's unsafe, the game is really harmless, but to fix that you'll either have to turn off any scanners you have or find a way to tell those programs you trust the file.
Or there might have been a problem with download in the first place, sometimes things just go kind of weird and the file isn't able to then work right. So you could also try downloading it all again.
I hope you're able to have it work out!
Hmm, It still didn't work, I tried it on Steam and it shows that it was paused 'cause it had missing downloaded files? Correct me if I'm wrong! It still won't download anywhere :((
Then it is likely you have a program somewhere on your computer that's blocking the file regardless of where you're downloading it. Can you check if there's a firewall or virus scanner somewhere? I'm sorry for the trouble.
Oh! I already played it! It's amazing!! I recommended to my friends, good job on the game! (I just used an emulator on PC and all went well ^^) Thank you so much for this game! I can't believe this quality of otome is free, I'm not complaining though, haha! By any chance, are you Filipino? ^ . ^
I'm really glad you were able to play it ^^. Sorry for the trouble with getting it to work. And I'm not Filipino myself.
I wish this game would have more steps after step 4.
Step 5 dealing with pregnancy or adoption between Cove and MC.
Lastly a Step 6 where you're actually dealing with parenthood and your marriage.
I would pay for this.
OMG YES SAME!!!!
They do already have plans for a sequel. They've discussed it on their Patreon.
I'm pretty sure that's a stand-alone sequel with new characters? It's just the same as this one in the sense that you follow the same formula of growing up with one/two people and experience a life together in different steps. I could be wrong, but that's what I've gathered
Since they're asking about art styles for a Cove older than he will be in Step 4, I figured it'd be a sequel, but it's true they haven't revealed much. I haven't gone through all their posts, but I haven't seen anything that specifies what OL2:N&F will be like.
Sorry for the confusion on that. Cove was only used in the art samples so the new love interests' designs weren't spoiled. Our Life: Now & Forever will have similar features to Beginnings & Always and the tone is the same, but the setting and characters are all brand new. I'm afraid the Step 4 wedding DLC with Cove is as far as his story will go. There won't be a time period past that. I'm happy you'd like to continue seeing more of him, though!
Okay. I love the concept anyway! Thanks for clearing that up.
Honestly, anything which provides more life with Cove would be excellent.
This has been amazingly therapeutic. I didn't get to experience a wholesome childhood crush; my teenage years were complicated by fundamentalist religion. It's so healing to get to work through my own feelings about how it would be if I had 2 moms, if I could talk about my gender with friends who accept me. I feel... okay. I get to feel okay. I'm much older now, so I have gotten to surround myself with a loving family, but it's still good to understand it wasn't my fault that everything was broken in my childhood, the world just wasn't made for me. If I had always had this support, not just in my later years, but throughout my life, I would have been okay. Thank you for this.
I am very old. I grew up in the 70s in rural England. To be gay was to face daily abuse and to be an outcast (I am not exagerating). I was never brave enough for that. I didn't even know what my sexuality was growing up. I just knew that I was not like the people around me. Imagine reaching the moment where Cove tells you his sexuality, and having learned everything about him so far, it all falls into place. I am the same sexuality as Cove. I can tell you, I cried uncontrollably for a couple of minutes. But not through sadness, just raw emotion. After 57 years I discover that there must be other people like me. You will understand how much this "game" means to me. So when you say that this game is theraputic, I know exactly where you are coming from.
Hello Zevvi, I saw your post and felt the need to reply. I was in my 30's once I learned what I am. I am VERY HAPPY for you! I understand some of the feelings your having. I cried tears of joy once I realized I wasn't alone and that there were others like me.
I myself am asexual. Demisexual falls w/in the spectrum of asexuality so you may be interested in learning more about the orientation and connecting with others through this website...
https://www.asexuality.org/
CONGRATULATIONS! I give you a virtual hug.
This game means a lot to me too. The way Cove interacts with the player and has to do a few "test runs" before he can be comfortable doing anything physical is very like my own experience. I'm so glad the creators made this game. It's just the kind of media and representation I wish existed when I was Cove's age and confused.
Hi gingerDee. Really nice to hear from you. Thanks for your message. Thanks so much for the link, and the virtual hug, I appreciate it, and send one back :)
I'm sure that a lot of people feel the way we do about this game. ( as I've said elsewhere, game just does not seem an adequate word to describe it).
I, just a moment ago subscribed on the Patrion site to help fund the GB Patch developers. Our Life means so much to me, I felt it was the very least that I should do.
You said "It's just the kind of media and representation I wish existed when I was Cove's age and confused." I could not put it better myself. Had I understood myself better, then I might have possibly been more understanding of others too. I think that my biggest regrets are not understanding other people in the past. When I was in sixth form, I remember a guy telling me out of the blue that he is gay (this was the 70s, he could have been abused and become an outcast for saying that, but he told me), and I didn't have a clue what to say. I am filled with shame looking back on it, he put his trust in me, yet I had nothing for him, because I didn't understand. I spoke to no one else about it, but I never talked to him about it ever again either. How awful is that.
The one big thing that this game has changed in me is that I feel open about it all. If anyone asks me anything about my feelings then I will now tell them the honest truth without embarassment. Before, I was completely evasive, because I felt that I didn't really know what the truth was. It is a liberating feeling.
So thanks again for your message, I really do appreciate it :)
Thank you for sharing. <3
Well when I discover this game almost a year ago, I just knew that it was pure gold.
I was right. This game is so wonderful that I have dificulties to find the rights words to express how I feel right now.
I was so deep in the story that I played the entire game whitout a break (Well excepts those few times were I had to grab tissues to clean my crying face, haha)
I just feel sad that I don't know anything about coding and stuff, otherwise I would have happily tried to translate the game in my mother tongue just to give it more visibility in my own country. Because trust me, you deserve it !
Like I said in a previous comment, this kind of project looks really complex to make, so I hope all the people who contribute to create this beautiful game are happy and proud with what they achieved !
So thanks you so much for all your efforts and time to give people such a good game. And please, don't forget to think about yourself too and to not pushing yourselves to hard !
Thanks again and sorry for such a long comment, haha
It is a truly beautiful experience. You are right, it would be so nice if it could be made accessible in other languages. I am English/French, but I'm afraid that my French does not have the nuance to do justice to this wonderful work of art. To call it a game really does not seem adequate.
Hehe I'm little flustered, I didnt expect someone to reply me. But yeah I understand the feeling I guess. More than a game its a way to heal, understand yourself a little better and regain faith in humanity. A reminder that this world isnt only made by narrow minded people who want to crush all your dreams and hope.
I've spent over 7 and a half hours playing this game and I've finished most of the currently playable content. I've got to say we're all blessed to have been able to get a novel of this quality for free. I'm looking forward to any future updates and will support the creators whenever I can
Edit: A word
This is one of the best games i've ever played! I've almost cried and have felt emotional towards Cove. Liz is one of my favorite characters! This game is great 10/10 would play again- no, WILL play again!
"Almost" cried? Do you have a heart of ice ;) I'm a 57 year old man, and more than once I had tears rolling down my cheeks. :)
who else cried during the game. Also i have a really unhealthy obsession with Cove that I've been drawing my character and Cove together. I LOOOOOVE THIS GAME! also I would love to share my art if anyone is interested.
Ofcourse I cried, who wouldn't? How could you not be obsessed with Cove. You meet him crying uncontrollably all alone at the beach, anyone with a heart would be desperate to make him feel OK. Then as you get to know him, he is absolutely adorable. I think that your reaction is 100% understandable :)
thank u! I feel u!
So, I didn't even go 5 minutes after finding out about the release before buying the DLC. Since the release, I've lost track of how many times I've played. The first time after the release I cried several times while playing because some scenarios hit really close to home (it was a good, much needed cry).
Seriously one of the best, if not THE BEST, game I've ever played. I'm waiting so impatiently for the Step 3 DLC, but I'm trying to reign it in. I know perfection takes time!
Sad to see my Jeremy be so angry, but kinda cool to see how he was before entering high school. I couldn't imagine him being angry when I played XOXO Droplets, now I'll always know how much of a jackass he truly was...
Kinda wish the Android DLC played nicely all together rather than having to install it whenever I get to that Step, but I keep playing on my computer anyway.
guys- i just finished the story and im crying :( im in love with cove and the moms and the sister and everyone!!! i'm struggling with some things right now and this story helped me to forget the bad feelings i was feeling. im looking foward to the next chapter! thank u so much for rep the lgbtq+ community, i wasnt expecting this. i am demisexual and i felt really emotional seeing this kind of representation <3
I just finished the game and i'm a little curious on what I saw for phase 4, I noticed a white bouquet. Pllllzzzzz tell me we are marrying Cove!
Yes! Step 4 will have a special DLC where you can marry Cove and plan your wedding to him!!! I an impatiently waiting for it!!!!
WHAT?!?! OMG THANK YOU FOR THE SPOILER! ;;_;; Literaly crying right now. I NEED STEP 4 ! ._. Like....NOW! XD
IM SAVING MY MONEY FOR THAT DLC
After a long time i decided to play this game a second time! And i was GREATLY BLOWN AWAY! I really love the whole story I get to create with Cove!
This game is basically my life now!
i love it soooo much, it is so cute and beautiful, i was screaming through the game because how cute Cove is. This art styles are ABSOLUTELY AMAZING, EVERY SINGLE THING ABOUT THIS GAME IS AMAZING. and i love that fact that we have a lot of choices to make so often, it make the game so much better and not boring
1000/10 loving it :)
I don't know if it's a glitch, but before starting the second part it has the Comfort and Interest meter. It won't let me increase the Interest meter at all
Crush is the highest level of interest you can get until you get to Step 3. Once they're adults, it can be increased to love.
Interest levels can only be raised, never lowered. Comfort can be both lowered and raised. Before starting each step, you can adjust the meters to your preference.
Oh! Thanks for letting me know. I spent ages trying to make it move up lol.
No problem! It's a pretty unique mechanic for these sorts of games, and it's really cool seeing how dialogue and such changes depending on what interest/comfort combos you choose!
I really enjoyed the life aspects of the game. The characters and world feel absolutely real, and I was deeply invested in them.
I was surprised at the journey it took me on, too. I found myself thinking pretty intensely about my childhood, my gender, and my relationships with my parents and my peers for the first time in a while. Caught me off guard, made me think, and gave me a little happiness I think I may have missed out on.
Cove's a cutie, and his personality and worldview developing is amazing to watch and grow with. Thanks so much for this game, guys! Seriously.
Yes, it is a beautiful game. Cove is totally adorable. And yes, it is a game that had me continually reflecting on my life, and life decisions. If only I could have grown up with someone like Cove by my side, life would have been perfect.
i eagerly waited for this game to release and there are lots of things i liked about it—the art, how decisions and memories early on in the game made an appearance later on, the personalities of the characters. i definitely felt emotionally invested in different relationships and it was hard for me to say goodbye when that time came.
as someone that is big on romance though, i wish there was...more. i liked all of the other characters but i sometimes found myself skipping forward until i could have more alone time to bond with cove and make progress with the romantic side of our relationship. i am probably alone in this but it would have been nice in steps 2 and 3, if mc had a direct crush and/or was in love with cove, the family bit would feature a little less and the romance part was more prominent. romance didn't feel like a highlight of this game for me.
i also felt weird about choosing romance options i thought were typical in teen romance that seemed to initially make cove uncomfortable. i get that he struggles with certain forms of intimacy which is why i wish especially in step 3, we saw less of the family and friends and more moments of just mc and cove. by the end of the game i found myself craving more romance moments with cove and i bought both dlcs and played through them a couple times.
SPOILERS FROM STEP 3!!!!
I love this game.
It feels so nostalgic, especially near the end when you are saying goodbye to cove's parents, and the little chat MC and him have before the credits roll. The credits song is so pretty, loved every second of this experience.
It makes me feel loved and fuzzy inside, even if they are just fictional characters. It shows how real they feel and the real development they have.
TLDR: 10/10, will play again.
I played this game before It was fully released and I just realized today that the full game is out, I just want to say thank you for making a great game and I look forward to your next projects!!!
This is a beautiful game. And yes, the characters are very well imagined. Cove is completely adorable, he felt totally real to me. So you can imagine how it felt to finish the game. I can recommend other games with amazing characters (but without the sexual attraction). DONTNOD's "Life is strange 2" has two brothers on the run from the police after their father is mistakenly shot by the police, that game is an emotional roller coaster. You will feel you want to move heaven and earth to help Sean and Daniel. DONTNOD's "Tell me why" is nice too. But "Our Life" has to be the most memorable and beautiful game I've ever played, and Cove, the most real and adorable character.
this was absolutely incredible, I had so much fun playing. It was so comforting and lovely and so so sweet I had so much fun <3 amazing job!!
I am so, absolutely enamored by this game. Everything about it has entranced me and I can't help but want more. It normally takes me a while to replay games after I experience them -- especially visual novels.
I played this three times in a row and had that same magnificent experience the entire time. It's so cute, so warm, and I love being able to be totally comfortable with my choices. I can play a character, or I can be myself, but I never have that issue of being uncomfortable. This game really speaks to its title. It's not just about the player, it's about Cove and everyone the player grows to know and love and what they do. It's gorgeous. Please play it too.
I can't wait for the future, and I can't wait to be able to afford all the DLC. I love everything this game has had to offer. Thank you so much for creating it. I hope Cove knows that I adore him lolol <3
I made account just to say this is the best visual novel I ever played. I feel in love with Cove immediately and felt invested in the relationship. I don't even have the words to say how much this impacted me. I bought the DLCs for my second playthrough. Love this so much